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Little Boop #653: clapping

One time I wore these pants and this man said the craziest thing. He came and stood next to me at the crosswalk and said “ohh my I thought you were clapping for me…with no hands”

-_-

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Little Boop #652: Long Lesson

What lesson took you the longest to unlearn?

The lesson that has taken me the longer to unlearn is “be nice.”

Being nice has gotten me into some mess. There is no discernment with niceness.

This question came from the We’re Not Really Strangers deck. You can get your deck here.

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Little Boop #651: Grateful

What are you most grateful for in this moment?

I am most grateful for the relationships that I have in my life. I love that I have friends I can depend on and family that will always answer the phone. I am grateful to never truly be alone.

This question came from the We’re Not Really Strangers deck. You can get your deck here.

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Little Boop #650: Fork

Name a fork in the road in your life.

This is very recent and I feel like I took the wrong prong.

A couple weeks ago I was walking home from work. As I was chatting on the phone with my homie, Mike, a guy walked up to me and asked if I could show him to Union Station. I walked with him to Union Station and decided to ride the bus home. He came and stood next to me at the bus stop.

I got on the bus and some other random dude sat next to me. SAFE.

The guy tapped me on the shoulder and told me to come sit next to him.

There is the fork.

I moved to sit next to that man and ending up having the wildest night I have had thus far in 2025.

This topic came from The Josh Johnson Show podcast. Listen on Apple Podcasts here.

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Little Boop #649: Being in Love

How would you describe the feeling of being in love in one word?

Euphoric

This question came from the We’re Not Really Strangers deck. You can get your deck here.

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Little Boop #648: Pain

What’s the most pain you’ve been in that wasn’t physical?

I felt the pain in my chest when I read the question, but I am trying to tie it to a memory. I know I recorded a video on my phone that day.

October 17th, 2022. I don’t know what exactly was going on that day, but I had reached my breaking point. The most pain I had felt was in heartbreak and despair. I did not understand how I could be doing everything “right” on paper and still be feeling a way and be struggling. I just wanted to be happy.

This question came from the We’re Not Really Strangers deck. You can get your deck here.

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Little Boop #647: really really?

How am I, really?

Anytime anyone asks me this question, I say “fine.”

Biggest lie ever told

How am I, really?? Like, right now.

I am hopeful for the future and panicky at the same time. I am happy to be here and am ready to make my impact known. I am discouraged in my romantic love life, but thriving in my platonic and family relationships.

How am I?

I am better.

This question came from the We’re Not Really Strangers deck. You can get your deck here.

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Little Boop #646: 70 hours

I put working a 70 hour work week on my April Bingo card. 45 hours is the most I worked any give week. We will add that to the May card.

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Little Boop #645: Countdown

Officially 3 more weeks until I can transition to hybrid/remote status at work. I am so excited to save money on lunch and time on the commute.

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Little Boop #644: hair did

My microlocs are officially complete! I am happy to be back part of the loc gang. I will most likely take the extensions out in November at the latest.

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Little Boop #643: Thought

I am going to get the “We aren’t really strangers” cards and start doing those and another reflection questions as my boops starting in May.

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Little Boop #642: Bigo

I don’t know if you have heard of the app, but this is where I will be going live instead of Twitch and Youtube. I don’t quite understand it yet, but there is an opportunity for a lot of different exposure.

Download the App

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Little Boop #641: Big things poppin

Met with my mentor last week. I am feeling good about what is coming next for the Zen Den.

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Little Boop #640: realignment

I love how the women in my life pour into me. I really be messed up over these dudes, but my ladies get me back right. There is nothing wrong with me. Shout out to Shiya for the screenshot and Youtube video. Even though you sent it last week, I am still going back to it.

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Little Boop #639: Male Gaze

I appreciate you telling me that I am cute. I know I’m cute. You telling me all of the things you want to do to me is not flattering. It makes me feel like a piece of meat. I am more than what you see superficially. Though I do enjoy the D, but dudes give me the ick sometimes. I understand why Doechii said straight guys are a RED FLAG.

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Little Boop #638: Data

It is so crazy how much we use data. I tried to downgrade to a 5 GB plan for my phone and it didn’t even last 2 days. My phone usage for the day is less than 4 hours. My mind is so blown. I thought that the WiFI at work and my house would support me in my downsize but clearly me being in on my phone in between work and home is a problem. Or I just need to keep my unlimited plan. So much for saving $15 a month.